Flakky Ididowo — Why I didn’t marry Pasuma


It’s a pity my relationship with Pasuma did not lead to marriage – Actress Ronke Odusanya aka Flakky ididowo


I hail from Ogun State. I was born into a Christian home and I had a strict upbringing. Even though my parents separated, my childhood was fun and I have so many good memories.  While my mum has yet to remarry, my dad remarried and I lived with him for some time.


I attended St. Benedict Nursery & Primary School, Lagos, and Federal Government Girls’ College, Akure. Afterwards, I studied Mass Communication at the Olabisi Onabanjo University, Ago Iwoye.


I became interested in acting when I was at the university. As an undergraduate, I used to feature in plays that were staged in school. Professionally, I started acting about 16 years ago. I joined Nollywood and took part in some English movies. I joined Oga Bello’s Awada Kerikeri Theatre Group, in the year 2000, and that was where I honed my acting skills.


In 2001, I featured in my first Yoruba movie, Baba Ologba, alongside Adebayo Salami, aka Oga Bello, and Femi Adebayo. Since then, I have featured in several others and I have played lead roles in many movies as well.


Life is full of challenges and I encountered so many obstacles when I started acting. Firstly, my father was not happy that I became an actress. When he discovered, he was very angry because he thought I would get a proper job. Besides, nobody in my father’s family had ever become an actress. Most of them were doctors, lawyers, engineers, etc.  My father and my stepmother did not support me and they tried to frustrate my ambition. At some point, he asked me to move out of his house if I was bent on becoming an actress. I went to live with my mum and even though she was not happy at what I had decided to do with my life, she did not fail to support me. Another challenge I faced was the poor remuneration. There were times when I was not even paid at all but I did not allow that to discourage me because of the passion I have for the job.


I have several nicknames. At the beginning of my career, I used to be known as Ronke AKO (Awada KerikeriOrganisation). I am also known as Becky, which was the character I played in Funke Akindele-Bello’s two-part movie, Jenifa. I think the nickname that has stuck with me is Flakky Ididowo. I got that pseudonym after I played Folake in a movie produced by someone I respect so much, Fathia Balogun.

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Movie production

I am not only an actress, I am also a producer. I have produced several movies in the past and I just finished work on two movies. I like to make good films and that is why I don’t come out with movies every now and then. I am a professional and I know what a good movie should look like. I have set a standard for myself and I don’t want to disappoint my fans.


People say I have a provocative figure but I did not create myself. When I was younger, people used to taunt me and I would cry. Over time, I have come to love my body irrespective of whether I have unusually large breasts or buttocks. When I walk on the streets of Lagos, men look at me in a seductive manner but I don’t care as long as I am not indecently dressed. In fact, some people scream obscenities at me. Some call me Cowbell and I either laugh it off or just ignore them.


I do not care about fame. It has not changed who I am and it has not altered the way I relate with people be it my family, friends or fans. I am a very simple person and generally down-to-earth and forthright. To a large extent, I am an introvert and I like to spend a lot of time indoors. I rarely go out except it is very necessary.


Being in the limelight has it disadvantages. One of the demerits of being in the limelight is that one finds it difficult to find true love. You can’t tell if that man or woman loves you for who you are or because you are a celebrity. I will get married when God says it is my time. My time has yet to come and that is why I am still single.  Anyone who rushes into marriage will definitely rush out, so I am taking my time. Unlike it was speculated sometime ago, I have never been married.

Pasuma and I

Not all relationships lead to marriage and such was my relationship with Pasuma. Even though we are no longer dating, we are still good friends. The fact that we are both celebrities may have been responsible for our inability to get married. A lot of times, celebrity marriages don’t work out because both parties are in the limelight. This breeds a lot of distrust and problems in the marriage.


I like simple, nice and classy wear. I also like traditional wear because I look good in them and they are super comfortable.

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  1. Ayo Shola

    November 21, 2016 at 3:02 pm

    As For Me I Like Ronke Odusanya A k A Fakky Ididowo God Will Be With U, u Will No Lack Good Things In Ur Life

  2. A. O. Olaniyan Mrs

    November 21, 2016 at 6:14 pm

    Even though I don’t know Ronke face-to-face,I always see her as a decent lady & I like her in d plays where I have seen her.

  3. Olayemi olatunji

    November 21, 2016 at 8:01 pm

    Ronke odunsaya; she z one of a kind woman, i lov the kind of role she played on a movie, may lord continue 2 inspired more knowledge nd understanding 2 u IJN.

  4. Raheem gafar,olowopoly1

    November 21, 2016 at 9:15 pm

    Ronke odusanya I really like her especially her breast and buttocks can you marry me am still a single

  5. Adams zubby

    November 21, 2016 at 10:55 pm

    May GOD be with u and may GOD bless ur work and GOD will give u ur husband dt will love u and ur work

  6. Anonymous

    November 21, 2016 at 10:58 pm

    I will like 2 b a actor because I like it with all my heart

  7. ifeoluwa temitope

    November 22, 2016 at 8:40 am

    I so much like everything about her may God be with you

  8. adeola

    November 22, 2016 at 3:45 pm

    i like u soo much

  9. azeez

    November 22, 2016 at 7:11 pm

    I we like 2 be actor

  10. opeyemi

    November 23, 2016 at 5:42 pm

    i we like to be actress pls beacs u said dat u are so simple

  11. gbolagade olohunkemi

    November 24, 2016 at 8:08 am

    i love you so much because you’re so sweet and nice and beautiful

  12. gbolagade olohunkemi

    November 24, 2016 at 8:10 am

    sooo beautiful

  13. Olatunji damilola

    November 24, 2016 at 8:19 am

    I love so much i like d way u talk when acting keep it up love u it ajoke oluwadamilola orelope

  14. Lilly Richy

    November 24, 2016 at 3:33 pm

    I lyk her acting and d way she dramatise. More grease to your elbow.

  15. Temileyiah akinsemoyin

    November 24, 2016 at 10:39 pm

    I like u very much

  16. yinka ajayi

    November 25, 2016 at 1:05 pm

    good actress i love the way u perform god we continue to bless u ijn

  17. oluwa bukola oyebola oguniyi

    November 25, 2016 at 10:31 pm

    God of supernatural will choose for u a good partner what ever u lay ur hand shall prosper move on don’t look back

  18. abiola olaitan

    November 26, 2016 at 6:54 am

    love ididowo very well

  19. Omotunrayo

    November 26, 2016 at 6:59 pm

    I love her so much.she is full of actions.kudos to her.

  20. yetex

    November 26, 2016 at 11:25 pm

    I just like her acting

  21. omobolanle azeez

    November 27, 2016 at 2:11 pm

    olorun afun e ni oko alalubarika

  22. Hammad Roqibat

    November 27, 2016 at 8:40 pm

    I love ur acting and i also wish to be an actress.

  23. Rokibat Hammed

    November 27, 2016 at 8:43 pm

    I love ur acting and i also wish to be an actress.

  24. glory kolawole

    December 24, 2016 at 12:31 pm

    i love u miss ronke may God grant u ur own husband that will love nd care for u nd i wish to be an actress like u

  25. Olujoke

    December 24, 2016 at 10:02 pm

    I love u so much I want to be like u,pls keep it up

  26. Anonymous

    December 25, 2016 at 8:20 am

    I love odunlade adakola so much

  27. olajire

    December 29, 2016 at 4:51 am

    No matter hw things goes around u, dey talk abt u don’t look bk keep it up wit ur good nd kindness atittude girl……….

  28. Anonymous

    December 29, 2016 at 7:02 am

    Luv u dear,do worry dear want for ur time dear and God will bless u with ur own husband.

  29. adamu kuraumsad4real@gmail.com

    January 1, 2017 at 2:53 am

    By mere looking, u don’t look indecent. Keep it up and God will see u through with a nice husband.

  30. Hannah

    January 3, 2017 at 2:24 pm

    Please dear,forget of marry a celebrity, just look for very simple, decent & educated man to marry. You are one of the good actress that I cherished so much. Sky is just the beginning. Love you dear.

  31. maurice funmilayo

    January 3, 2017 at 3:54 pm

    ur man is on d way comeing ma d person that will love u

  32. Yemarqueen yemark

    January 4, 2017 at 12:38 pm

    God will choose ur choice for u,love u.

  33. Anonymous

    January 4, 2017 at 3:53 pm

    U Are Beautifull Realy Like U

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