My Nigerian Boyfriend Is A Virgin But I’m Not, How Do I Tell Him The Truth

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I am currently in a serious relationship with the man of my dreams. Our families have already been involved and we are about to be engaged. I would do anything not to lose him.

This is the man I am absolutely in love with. He has been asking about my past, and because he’s a practicing Christian, he has never had sex. I have been lying to him about my past sexual activities.

When I’ve slept with countless of guys, I reduced the number to two, which he’s ok with. What bothers me is that as time passes, the more questions he asks about my past; the more I lie to him. He wants to know the details: the who-when-where-and How.

The lie is eating me up! I am scared of telling him the truth because I’m scared he won’t be able to accept me! What should I do?

Olajumoke writes from Akure Ondo state

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1 Comment

  1. KOREDE FOLASAYO AFOLABI

    November 16, 2016 at 3:58 pm

    better u tell him nw, be4it2late,if god hav say is ur husband 2 be nothing can change that.say d truth n u shall be free, if u ar afraind 2 comfront him go 2 ur pastor,God wil c u though in jesus name amen.have courage my sis frm another mother

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