What Ladies Must Learn from Mide Funmi Martins & Her Husband’s Separation

mide-and-afeez

If it’s true that she slept with another man as a married woman, not while they were dating, and her husband got to find out the truth, I believe he has done the right thing.

But if the issue have nothing to do with an adulterous wife, they should pray for ‘love’ and live in peace.
Read this piece about ladies and the lessons of marriage written
Actress Mide Funmi Martins’ 12 year old marriage to actor, producer and director, Afeez Owo is sure having problems as the actress took to her IG account to claim that Afeez left her and his 2 kids, 2 extended family members and their maid in the house and walked out of the union.
By and large, there are a lot of lessons young lovers, especially the ladies need to learn from Mide’s marital issues before they walk down the aisle.

DON’T RUSH INTO MARRIAGE
Of course, there is nothing bad if a lady gets married early but it has it’s down sides. Mide got married at the stage she was meant to experience youthful fun and wildlife by hanging out with friends and all that but her early marriage denied her access to that.

Some ladies want to do whatever they want with men for money before marriage because they think that would make them garner some experiences before marriage. Mind you, most girls who live bad lifestyles hardly make a good wife and mother. There are many instances.

BE MINDFUL OF THOSE YOU CHOSE AS FRIENDS
Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are. This popular saying best illustrates the situation in Mide’s marriage. At a point, Mide lived her life in a proper way as a responsible wife is expected to live but all these changed when she started rolling with certain sets of actresses, forgetting that a sheep that hangs out with dogs will eventually eat sh*t, according to an African proverb.

CHECK ALSO ☛  Didi Ekenem: My Bum Makes Me Very Active And Flexible In Bed

SETTLE DOWN WITH A MAN OF YOUR CHOICE
It is obvious these days that many ladies marry not because of love but a man’s money. Mide’s case is totally different from that. I will like to state that her union started having crisis since marrying a man who is not very handsome. Who knows if she had asked herself, ‘Why do I want to marry Afeez Owo? Can I cope with him? Will I actually be proud of him in public? Would men not take advantage of that?’

CONTENTMENT
No matter the situation you find yourself, be contented because you can’t know more than your creator. Your destiny is obviously not the same with that of your best friend, school mates or relations.

NEVER CHEAT ON YOUR HUSBAND
Ladies, one of the elements that will make your marriage work is staying true to your husband. Let him be able to confide in you. If you have the mindset that your husband can’t do anything without you doing yours, then you are on your way out of marriage. Above all, stay off infidelity.

Source, Yoruba Movie Gist

Connect With Slickson: Facebook | Twitter | Email: slicksonblog@gmail.com

79 Comments

  1. olayiwola adeola

    April 22, 2016 at 4:27 pm

    n mata wat happen we ladys must b patient nd b true mindful 2 his husband

  2. Anonymous

    April 24, 2016 at 9:28 am

    I respected that woman so much, but what she is against the will of God. When you guys saying the guy is not handsome. My question is did this guy blind or has any handicapping condition. The way this lady dress sometime in the movies baffle me. Also the kind of friends she move out with I mean the actresses, they dont have husband and they don’t want to have, because of dirty things they wanted to do. And she has gut to sleep with her husband best friend because of money or position, when they are doing that nonsense what mide will be saying about her husband at that moment….shame.these men you are given yourself to, they just want to make fun of you. Okay how did the secret expose, the guy told one of his friend that he confide in and the friend told the husband. Women think especially married women, when you marry you marry for life. What mide did is wrong, oju apa ko da bi oju ara. I read they’ve settled back, but this time let her becareful and follow married women that responsible not pamiku iyawo. You can see ojopagogo wife, she is more prettier than mide but look at her, she maintain are marriage, she never go to party and if she wanted to go, she goes with her husband. Mide Im your great fans but I hate adultery, when you marry, you marry don’t folloe bad carcaus. Maintain your marriage and respect your husband, that is your bone hold on him and stopped messing, those people will make jest of you, you will not be respected anymore. Egbon afeez emabinu it is well

    • Anonymous

      May 4, 2016 at 1:07 pm

      @Anonymous thanks for d advice u give mide I even learn from ur advice u give her god bless u for dat

    • oyindamola

      May 5, 2016 at 4:03 pm

      I really luv ur comments, thanks for the advice

    • Ayokunnumi

      December 12, 2016 at 6:52 am

      I love your advice

  3. Oyewole

    April 24, 2016 at 1:21 pm

    You’re wrong what of ladies who married at age Of 27 they are still doing nonsense mide did not made a mistake at all does are the challenges in marriage may almighty

  4. Mide Want U Do Is Very Wrong But I Want To Beg Bros Afeez Pls Forgive Ur Wife Think Of Ur Kid Ad Stop Angry

    April 26, 2016 at 9:07 am

    08107084707

  5. bukola

    April 29, 2016 at 1:25 pm

    She iz nt wrong at a side bt she iz at a side all wat I hav 2 say iz bros afeez shld 4give her plzzzzzz thanks.

  6. Anonymous

    April 29, 2016 at 8:52 pm

    pls, mide hold ur husband ooo, ke de fa ara yin mora

  7. Dupe

    April 30, 2016 at 1:21 pm

    Afeez owo is a handsome man is it because of his tribal mark , Afeez was living with Late Funmi Martins like a son and God blessed him so at DAT time mide was very young if mide has not married Afeez she would have suffered bcos nobody to render help for Late Funmi Martins children including Mide so Afeez carried d responsibilities so mide shld respect her husband

  8. pamilerin

    April 30, 2016 at 1:55 pm

    I love dis couple so much, pls dont let anyone put asunder, ever since I noticed some intimate frnds between mide and a particular actress that I won’t mention have know this is what will eventually happen bcos an adage says ‘agutan toba n baja rin ajegbe’ and those pple will still b the one to laught at mide if her marriage crash….

  9. Abdulrahman maryam onikijipa

    May 3, 2016 at 5:20 pm

    Pls sir 4give her

  10. oyindamola

    May 5, 2016 at 4:01 pm

    it is well, may the lord restore back his love into ur family. seek God for his presence in ur home.

  11. Princess Adekanmi

    May 6, 2016 at 8:36 am

    What God has joined together let no man put asunder. Iyawo pelu oko re e farayin mora

  12. Bamidele

    May 6, 2016 at 2:21 pm

    Afeez owo pls forgive her she is a gud woman just stop her wt bad friends

  13. Adebimpe

    May 6, 2016 at 6:35 pm

    Pls uncle Azeez forgive her. Ta a ba fowo otun bomo wi a maa n fi tosi famora ni.

  14. MM SALAU

    May 7, 2016 at 11:24 am

    Azeez pls forgive her she ur little sister site her down talk to her advice her like ur daughter, mide correct ur mistake talk to ur self hold ur husband keep your home

  15. Timothy Sunday

    May 8, 2016 at 8:16 am

    mide gbagbo pe oluwa ti so yin po I WO ati oko re adura yi agba

  16. Alaseyori

    May 8, 2016 at 5:33 pm

    Uncle Afeez,pls, forgive n forget, i know it’s not easy but with tym everything will be fine.Mide, love n respect ur husband cus oko won lode lopolo se gbe tie pon. If you are not careful dr r many out dr dt want ur hubby as dai man,so, rora se ile nyo oo.

  17. Oladeji olutomilola

    May 8, 2016 at 6:06 pm

    Plz uncle owo,4give yur wife 4 d sake of yur children nd dnt let d devil put asunda between u.Aunty mide,plz stop all yur bhaviour nd tel God tew 4give u.May God bless ur marriage.May both of u live long tew eat d fruit of yur labour.tankz

  18. Sade Akin Ola

    May 10, 2016 at 1:42 am

    We are not God. There is no perfect human on earth. I want us to know that one sin is not greater than other. We have all sin and cut short the glory of God. Please you people should not judge, but rather plead to both to accept themselves the way they are. And to God almighty to intervine.

  19. bose

    May 10, 2016 at 10:36 pm

    efara yin mora o efara yin mora iyawo pelu oko e efara yin mora bros e ni binu nani. eyin agba le sope omode kokin mo eko je koma ra lowo atipe aunty mide eyin naa se kundiekato beg ur husband and god w bless ur family amen

  20. bekky

    May 11, 2016 at 4:56 pm

    Ejo ooo, for the sake of the children. Oja to omo ba ttiwo okuta ti woo

  21. dammy

    May 12, 2016 at 8:13 pm

    is a lessons to others

    • alasiri

      December 14, 2016 at 6:01 am

      love is not blind because big like action movie afeez owo as she cop with her wife only god can protect your marriage

  22. Azeez jumoke Ajibade

    May 19, 2016 at 3:30 pm

    Pls sir 4giv & 4get evtytin pls

    • Anonymous

      December 12, 2016 at 3:50 am

      NO

  23. Oluwatunmise

    May 20, 2016 at 7:42 pm

    Pls ooo….Mr Owo 4give her 4 d sake of ur kids cos i love ur couple nd sister beg ur husband,he’s yur father if u dnt knw…..

  24. Alimi Abiola

    May 22, 2016 at 10:09 am

    Plz Bros 4give&4forget ur wife there is nobody perfect I’m big fan of both and i like ur couple, Bros try to talk to ur wife like father and daughter to stop follow bad waggon in film industry and outside everything we be alright sir esu oniya yin AMEN.

  25. Ibrahim Abiola Fatimah

    May 25, 2016 at 7:19 am

    Pls,sir 4give & 4getthe Issue.I Believe Mide Will Have Learnt Her Lesson From What She Did.Plzzz

  26. Anonymous

    May 25, 2016 at 11:23 am

    May God have mercy on us all. Pls bro Azeez l want u to forgive and forget continue your love from where u stopped for d sake of ur children pls. Mide stop hurting ur husband.

  27. Anonymous

    May 25, 2016 at 3:18 pm

    Tanks @ Anonymous

  28. Ahmed lateepha

    May 27, 2016 at 9:27 am

    Plz u guys should jst sort tins out,we all know there is no real warning to wen a man gets fed up but u just have to take tins easy with her,no one is perfect,am sure she might Av learnt her lessons by now, she’ll surely amend.4give her plz!

  29. Anonymous

    May 31, 2016 at 2:19 pm

    shade,what ar u saying, what is wrong is wrong, I blame d lady, if two people fight who is wrong is is wrog, Lev don’t judge ,

  30. blessing

    June 1, 2016 at 5:59 pm

    I pray that God should intervene in ur marriage

  31. ifeoluwa

    June 2, 2016 at 6:08 pm

    May God be with you guys Bross please forgive your sweetheart

  32. Anonymous

    June 23, 2016 at 9:37 am

    Abeg bros na Small pikin dey do mide no vex na ur wife

  33. pamilerin

    June 23, 2016 at 9:40 am

    Wat
    God has join 2geda no man can put asunder

  34. gbenga

    June 23, 2016 at 10:42 am

    I believe what’s bad is bad but 4sake of the kids 4give her. Lady’s stick with ur man, the young men just want 2 hv fun and later 4get u then chat about it.

  35. anonymous

    June 23, 2016 at 10:48 am

    Mide i lyk u but u got ursef entangled wiv bad frnds whc ll lead u to nowhere but distruction…i dnt knw wot u artists tink abt wen u r going into marriage..were u forced? No!!! do u tink marriage is just going to d alter to tie d knot,hell NO. Far far more dan dat, if u can go to d extent of sleeoing wiv ur man’s best frnd den it is a big SHAME on ur oart wot more can u do dat can b as bad as dis, 4 ur info mide i luked at ur hubby b4 clicking on dis site i sed so afeeze is dis fyn..waoh!so if u r tinking dat ur man is not gud enof 4 u den u r mistaken u r married to him nd deres notin u cud do to dat, r u just knowing dat? anyways bros afeeze u just v to let go..God ll grant u d grace to b able to 4giv her.

  36. Oluranti

    June 23, 2016 at 11:05 am

    pls Abdul Afeez forgive her as Almighty Allah forgive our sins. Mide huh, remember the daughter of whom you are. Those you see as friends today will at you tomorrow. go on ur kneels nd ask god to forgive you nd beg ur hubby. ileyin onidaru o in sha Allah,ameen.

  37. Ruth

    June 23, 2016 at 12:43 pm

    Am so happy about all dis comments thanks guys u all said it well is cos we love dem i pray dat ile gbogbo wa ko nidaru ooo Amin .Love dis couple Soo much

  38. Mopelola

    June 24, 2016 at 10:57 pm

    I pray that God Almighty will reunion the Hone &Forgive Her.Amen

  39. Mopelola

    June 24, 2016 at 10:59 pm

    I pray that God Almighty will reunion the Home &Forgive Her.Amen

  40. Shomoye olayemi

    June 25, 2016 at 2:01 pm

    mide am sorry for ur life is better you repent nd tell your husband you are sorry for ur mistake ,

  41. oluwatobiloba

    June 25, 2016 at 5:09 pm

    what d lord has joined together let no fucking man or any fucking woman put has under.boss afeez owo i will like you to for the sake of god and for the sake of your two lovely kids kindly forgive her and draw her the more closer to than ever.and plan ahead your children future

  42. mary adigun

    June 27, 2016 at 10:44 am

    Bro afeez pls forgive her 4 d sake of God. Mide u don’t even think of ur children future is better u go on ur keel and beg ur husband

  43. Anonymous

    June 28, 2016 at 1:46 pm

    Mide try and settle down wit ur husband.

  44. funmi

    June 29, 2016 at 1:04 pm

    pls l wil want to meet Mide personally.

  45. Anonymous

    June 30, 2016 at 12:17 pm

    pls uncle mide forgive ur wify so dat pple will not majesty of u nd to u mide u shld stop limiting urself before ur husband friend

  46. precious

    June 30, 2016 at 12:31 pm

    pls uncle mide forgive ur wify so dat pple will not majesty of u nd to u mide u shld stop limiting urself before ur husband friend

  47. Ayo

    July 1, 2016 at 2:36 pm

    Mide pls it nt easy t stay lonely hmmm nt easy atall,pls try and ask reliable people dat have married before they’ll tell u the koko,it’s nt easy o..ur man is a very handsome to another people which they want him bt still he continue loving ur lifestyles. Don’t look back bt Ask God t forgive u.and continue wit ur husband.Ema ja mo o

  48. Bola

    July 1, 2016 at 5:16 pm

    Mide, pls stay with him and him alone uncle Afeez u ar married to s a very handsome guy, forget about d tribal mark, pls for d sake of ur children, and mind d kind of frnds u move with cos an adage says, Egbe buburu ama back iwa rere je, pls save dt marriage.

  49. TEE-MEH

    July 3, 2016 at 10:06 am

    Nothing to say many people are saying alot, just to say a big SORRY to bro. afeez to forgive nd forget, awon yoruba so pe omode ole meko je ko ma ra lowo

  50. Mrs AI Akinwale

    July 10, 2016 at 5:22 pm

    Hmmm I blame Mide’s husband since he allows his wife to dress waywardly considering Nigeria’s cultural values regarding marriage Afeeze stop her exposing her body in the film n be born again,sorry d truth is bitter.

  51. Mrs adedayo

    July 30, 2016 at 7:00 pm

    Respect urself Mide.dont join multitude to do evil.God wil giv u wisdom to play a gud role as a wife n mother.God wil help u

  52. ATOFARATI

    October 5, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    Mide, am going to let u know that u have one of best men in the world as ur husband, ask me why? Some years ago ur husband came to kwara to shut film,and me and my friends mingle with them “as students” we were jisting especially on matrimonial, he advised us that, we should be lenient with we have,that we will get married we should not be cheating on our wife or husband, to lay good legacy our children.And one of my friends (Kafayat) asked him this, Why most of married one cheated on themselves? Bro Afeez replied that they don’t understand marriage before they got married, and like him now that he married the best woman as wife and he didn’t see any reason why he should be cheating on her,and he trust his wife also she can never do that because adultery is what God against.
    Lastly, that night we shared the same room with him,we were 4 in that room, bro Afeez said like mingle with students “he did not follow his colleague to flex around just bcos one word ” I love my wife ” Mide u really need to apology to this man he loves and am 100% sure he will forgive and forget bcos is Pius man.

  53. rànti

    December 10, 2016 at 11:14 pm

    auntY mide sOrry tO say oko wo nita lopolo se gbe ti e po awon ókunrin bakana niwon torina efa okoyi mora tori ohun taba fisile lenu aja tO love you

  54. Anonymous

    December 11, 2016 at 8:03 pm

    Sister mide, pls ask for your husband forgiveness, oko ti won lode o

  55. Anonymous

    December 12, 2016 at 11:30 am

    You have to change your ways, I don’t see anything in infidelity expect shame & disgrace

  56. Olanipekun Olugbenga

    December 12, 2016 at 2:13 pm

    This is a lesson to everybody reading this post. As an educationist,learning takes place everywhere. I want to believe that we have all learnt from what happened. Just to advise both of them to settle their disputes because that is part of challenges that one needs to pass through in marriages. It only takes the grace of God for a marriage to stand.

  57. odunayo

    December 12, 2016 at 11:56 pm

    bross afeez forgive and forget about wat happened becos no one perfect,sis.mide try to respect ur husband nitoripe okoloko a ma je ibakere ibatobi oko yin na si fun idieyin ebowo fun won olorun to soyin po koni tuyinka Ami

  58. Abioye

    December 14, 2016 at 10:22 am

    bro afeez please for give your wife eni lati so fun wipe ko ye wo aso kaso ninu film mo anty mide e be oko yin oo mo gba adura fun ile yio oni daru oo

  59. abdulrasheed olalomi

    December 16, 2016 at 10:25 am

    I like your lesson for a spouse

  60. Anonymous

    December 28, 2016 at 7:39 pm

    Thou shall not judge. M nt judging any of them, Bt everything goes along with prayers. What happened, could have happened to any couple. We just have to be thankful… May God restore love, back to the Family.

  61. taiwo

    December 28, 2016 at 9:01 pm

    Pls 4give ur wife

  62. Adebimpe Moses O.

    December 28, 2016 at 9:32 pm

    mr. Afees pls fogive her i lov u.

  63. Temmytope

    December 29, 2016 at 5:38 pm

    Pls for God sake forgive your wife.I love d way I saw both of u together in films.pls forgive her for the sake of love and ur children.

  64. Anonymous

    January 3, 2017 at 2:14 am

    PLS bros afeez owo 4give ur wife nd I knw she would learn frm her lesson nd such won’t happen again
    Am always proud of their union nd aunty mide should stop keeping friends too much of friends company is too much nd most of them are not happy wit the love that is between them .they want her 2 also be a single mother bt aunty mide that will not be ur portion in Jesus name .e farayi mora iyawo ati oko ‘re.GOD will restore love , happiness, joy etc 2 ur family bros afeez owo.Pls forgive nd forget.

  65. Anonymous

    January 4, 2017 at 1:10 am

    You all know what am very disappointed in her,is it not a month or two i read her tweet were she was defending the love she has for her husband when some pple are criticizing there marriage,it was unbelievable for me when i first hear the news of she cheating on her husband but really i have no business with it is your husband i av talk with. Pls uncle Owo find a place in your heart to 4giv ha i knw she also luv bt i dont know wat or who lured ha into dat act but pls for the sake of your children and the covenant of marriage btw both of you plz forgive ha. Am a great fan of you am seeing you both breaking up is not advicible…cos this is the tym the (entertainment) industry need you together..

  66. Fakeye adebowale

    January 5, 2017 at 1:04 am

    Bro afeez owo am a gr8 fan of urs, pls I see u to be blamed oo y must u allow ur wife to be mingling with wayward actresses and which even affected her to the extent of dressing waywardly.and u also know that aguntan toba ba aja run ajegbe ,and to u mide I thank god for you that you are lucky .people like you because of the love they have for your mum oluwafunmulayo Martins , Ola abata niimodo San, ola baba nii momoyan , mide are you not ashamed of yourself? If you continue with this would your mum be happy with u? Maawa gbabe pe ohun totiyan loju jole niwo n she yio, sewo le GBA iru e? Mide pls don’t spoil your mum’slegacy, elegbon agba series pe moti bayin bawi, Ohun naa otun in Faso iru e soro mo,EBA mi faamora eeyan bi esu oniyayin o

  67. Kafayat

    January 8, 2017 at 12:34 pm

    Pls Aunty Mide Try To Apologise,bi Elebi Ba Ti Mo Ejo E Lebi Ko Ni Pe Lori Ikunle.da bi mo se da afoju to ta roba ni awon ore yin.mo fe ki e ranti pe ko si aponle fun obinrin ti ko laade ori.e be oko yin ki e jawo ninu ore kore,ki e si ma mura gege bi iyawo ile.pls uncle forgive ur wife she will not do that again

  68. Mr makanjuola gbenga

    January 25, 2017 at 1:44 am

    Is terrible oo anyway remembered what to a women in the bible when she committed adultery people wanted to stone her to death but Jesu intervain and said anybody that did not committed such a thing should stone her to death and Jesu said woman go but sin no more pls mode don’t don’t do that again thank you all.

  69. Anonymous

    February 5, 2017 at 6:42 pm

    Konigba osho igba. Give it up to Mide. You are a woman of dignity, you are doing your best to keep your home. May the lord strengthen you. Wish you a happy home for life.

  70. Mrs Abiodun

    February 5, 2017 at 10:19 pm

    Afeez Mabiun Si Iyawo Re Olorun Konituyii Ka Ti Awo Omo Ni Kiero Idile Konidaru Ni Agbara Oluwa

  71. Folashade akintola

    February 6, 2017 at 9:38 pm

    Am so sorry for u mide,u did not value what u have until u lose it,I pray u will not lose ur husband,becareful

  72. Adekunle Ajibola

    February 7, 2017 at 4:59 pm

    You people forget this is a social media, even many years to come some will see it,well may God see to the marriage, igbose kinkinni Lati awo gbegiri ………

  73. Adetola

    February 8, 2017 at 9:59 pm

    eyin agba na lesope omode o ni no eko je ko ma ra lowo,d deed has already been done sir,pls pls nd pls forgive nd forget God will uphold your family

  74. Moradeke Yusuf

    February 9, 2017 at 12:00 am

    Awaye Maja Kosi Aja Mapari Ni Ko Da Efara Yi Mora Bcos Of Ur Kids

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published.

CLOSE